Maybe you walked in on him wanking it while a bizarre porn game was on his screen.
Maybe you saw the evidence on his mobile device, tablet, or computer. Mobile porn games are all the rage these days.
In any case, you caught him red handed porn gaming and now you don’t know what to do.
Here are some reasons why your man might be playing porn games and how you might consider reacting.
Porn Games Allow Him Sexual Self-Expression
Porn games offer a wealth of expression. The plots and stories and challenges all amount to letting go of sexual inhibitions. Porn games are an ultimate fantasy land where players are able to act out their more bizarre feelings.
And to wrap this point in a bow we’ll convey that porn games are a judgment free zone. Unless of course, he gets caught, which may be the case given who is reading this article. Yeah, I’m looking at you.
Sexual communication is a challenge for most couples. That’s not odd. This leads people to find other ways to express their needs. Sure, watching porn takes care of visually viewing a fantasy, but not really experiencing that fantasy.
Porn games are on the forefront of virtual reality porn. So it should come as no surprise that many men (and women, although they aren’t the focus of this article’s issue) gravitate towards these games.
And no, this doesn’t mean that it is your fault that your handsome mister is peering into bizarre porn games. It could mean that the two of you haven’t communicated that well. Which is more then normal these days.
He Digs Some Odd Kinks
This point is related to the prior point.
Let’s be honest, we all like some embarrassing kinks. We don’t go around posting about our kinky fantasies on social media for a reason. Likewise, we don’t often tell a girl or guy we are dating about them, either.
You can watch porn for kinks. Or you can partake in the kinks. Some porn games are so intense the guy may feel he’s a part of the erotic action.
If he’s turned to porn games to satisfy the kinks, he may feel the kink is a bit too over the top to confess to.
He’s Into Challenges, Gaming
Some guys just dig games.
Have you ever had that friend who always wanted to sit and play the games at the bar? While you and the rest of the gang sipped libations and talked about nonsensical, funny anecdotes, your other friend just sat at a barstool staring at the screen with numbers on it.
Some people like all their activities to have a gaming aspect. Maybe he tried to watch porn, but felt more comfortable with the gaming aspect involved?
It could be just that simple.
What Happens When You Learn of Your Boyfriend’s Porn Game Habit?
First, don’t panic.
You might shame him. And if you shame him, you’ll lose all your trust with him. And things can get murky from there. You might be tempted to get angry at him as maybe you feel he was cheating on you. But it is important to fully examine why he may have turned to porn games.
If he doesn’t know you caught him, don’t go on an immediate rampage. Take breaths, think it through.
Here are actions to consider:
- If you saw the kinks he is into, maybe slyly bring them up. Prompt conversations.
- If you want to acknowledge that you know, bring it up gently. Maybe offer to play with him and learn why he likes them. You might just dig it yourself.
- Play the games yourself. Learn more about the kink or challenge.
In the end, don’t freak out if you man is porn gaming. If he’s not swiping Tinder profiles, he’s not really cheating unless you two previously agreed porn games are infidelity.